"The Problem With Men and Women Is That..."

Before we tackle with this problem, let us first define the male and the female. Female is pertaining to the sex that brings forth young or produces ova while the male is pertaining to the sex that begets young and produces sperm cells. This is how the Funk and Wagnalls Dictionary defines. The definition of both sexes clearly reveals their opposition. As you notice, they produce different type of cells that when combined together will bring forth young. What I mean here is that the contrast is beneficial for it gives a new life.

But if we study the differences between these sexes, even their finest detail, we can find several problems from them. These are not just differences in terms of physical aspect, but also in their mental and moral aspects.
What I would tackle here are problems towards men and women regarding their moral aspects.

We first tackle the problems girls that girls will always encounter with men. It is easy to observe problems with men but it is hard to understand them. You have to read their thoughts and actions before concluding what they are really up to. So, if I were asked to state the problems regarding men, I would prefer to my own perspective and experiences that I have encountered regarding this issue.

The problems I have with men were mostly their attitudes towards situations. First, I don’t understand why they have to promise if they can’t fulfill it. Is it for the sake of fun? I mean, to promise is a delicate thing to do since it can destroy our dignity. If we break our promises, we unconsciously lowered down our pride and dignity. People will not trust us anymore. We better not make promises to avoid losing other people’s trust on us.

Another problem I have with guys is that they require attitude that is hard to understand things. It took several arguments and talks just to let them understand what girls really mean. Guys are also fond of making fun with girls. I don’t understand why most men do that with girls. Maybe they feel that they are superior over girls.

Lastly, I also don’t understand why most men are vain. They look at the mirror fixing their selves like most girls do.

Now so much for the guy part. Let’s go with the girl part.

As what I have notice, most girls are narcistic or vain. They always go to the mirror, fix their selves as though they are ugly all the time. They always want to be appreciated and to be recognized with what they have and what they contributed. It’s hard to handle this kind of attitude.

Another thing is that girls have weak emotions. They cry even in less pain that they felt. They are easily carried away with their emotions with regard to the situation. That’s why boys have a hard time consoling and understanding girls.

Girls are also the most jealous creature. I don’t know if that’s a fact, but that’s how I see girls.
But girls and boys are who they are. Actually, we are what we are. These are just common problems that we have encountered and heard from other people. In spite of these problems, these two opposite sexes find greater assurance with each other. They enjoy being with each other.

We may encounter problems in meeting other people but that is one way of learning. We should not find problems with them. Instead, we should find good learning from them. We should enjoy each other’s company. Life is better when we find no problem with each other.